Thinking of becoming a foster parent but are unsure whether this is something you and your family could take on? Our goal at Holy Cross is to aid in our foster parents initial and ongoing training to help them succeed. Ensuring foster parents meet the state licensing requirements, while providing the resources they need to be healthy influences to Michigan’s vulnerable children.
The Goal of Foster CareThe primary goal of foster care is to provide a stable, nurturing home to children when they are unable to remain in the home with their biological family. We work with families to understand what they are able to take on and what children are suitable for each home. By operating this way, we’re able to properly place children with families that fits everyone’s needs the best. The safety and well-being of the child is a priority, as is letting them know people are there to help and provide hope when their lives have been turned upside down.
Do I want to be a Foster Parent?Before becoming a foster parent there are some key questions to ask yourself.
- Do you have a strong support system that can help during stressful times?
- Are you patient?
- Are you prepared for the child to sometimes put unplaced anger, rage, and emotional distress on you and not take it personally?
- Are you willing to say goodbye when the child moves on?
- Does your current family situation/setting present a good opportunity to foster?
- Finally, the most important question, do you have extra unconditional love to give to a child that needs a role model, someone to take care of them and someone to be there no matter what?
How to Become a Foster Parent
Step 1: OrientationOnce you decide you would like to learn details associated with becoming a foster parent, you will attend an orientation in which the following information is covered: rules for foster family homes; requirements to become licensed; and an in-depth discussion about the type of child that would best fit into your home.
Step 2. Application and Background CheckAt the end of the orientation, you may be ready to sign an application and officially start the licensing process! At the same time your application is signed, you will submit information to complete a comprehensive background check and your worker will schedule you to have fingerprinting completed. Your application and completed background check/fingerprint forms will be sent to the Division of Child Welfare Licensing in Lansing to enroll you as a foster parent.
Step 3. Home StudyIn the next step, you will need to gather personal documents and provide information to your licensing worker about yourself, your home, and the people living in your home, such as:
- Driver’s licenses
- Vehicle registration and insurance
- Marriage/divorce documents
- Medical forms
- Copies of income and finances